Letting Go…

One minute you have your whole life planned out with the absolute love of your life, with dreams of living happily ever after and in the twinkle of an eye you both become total strangers, never wanting to see or talk to each other again.

Sigh.

Life doesn’t prepare you for the uncertainties, loneliness and fears that comes with breakups. The unending questions you ask yourself in your head, “Am I good enough?”, “Can I ever fall in-love again?”, “What if I never meet someone better? or anyone at all?”.

You’d wake up every morning missing them and going back to read old chats, swiping through pictures of you guys together that you’re yet to summon courage to delete — with tiny hopes that you’d find your way back to each other, remembering how you went from just being friends to lovers and now strangers. The wave of sadness that comes with the thoughts followed by anger and ending with hot tears😩. Oh! Loss of appetite, I didn’t forget that.

Days turn to weeks then months and you gradually stop bothering yourself about what they’ve been up or who they’ve been hanging out with. You no longer feel the urge to stalk them on Social media or dial their number.

Boy bye!

Slowly but surely, you begin to pick up pieces of your broken heart and merge them together bit by bit, you stopped crying yourself to bed or blame yourself for the breakup.

You become the happy, cheerful and light-hearted human you’ve always been. Rather than wallowing in self pity and sadness, you channel all that energy into improving yourself and learning new skills. You’re more focused on getting the bag than crying over spilt milk.

Trust me, letting go can be really harddd but you’d eventually get through it. While, the memories shared might never be forgotten, you’ll always look back and hold on to the lessons learned.

Website