It Can be so Fun and Easy to Throw a Rock in a Lake. But, We Wouldn’t Know How Deep it Can Go!
Yes, when someone we trust, we always know that they won’t ever dare to hurt us with their words or their actions, to leave us behind, or to ignore us. But in reality, they do those things bluntly without even being mindful about our feelings… It will be so damn hurtful!
Friendship is an invaluable asset in life. It provides emotional support, understanding, respect, and guidance. Good friends boost our morale when we’re down and pull us up when we feel like we’re being left behind. True friends will always be there for us in times of need and can make any bad situation better.
That’s why one of the most important attributes of a good friendship is a commitment to not hurt each other. Friends are always there when we are sick or down mentally.
In the context of verbal connection, there’s a clear distinction between being critical and hurting someone. Criticism helps us to change and grow, while hurting someone’s feelings or making them feel bad is completely counter-productive and destroys the trust in the friendship.
It’s natural to disagree with someone from time to time. But friends should always handle these disagreements in a respectful way. That means when we feel the need to express ourselves, we have to do it in an honest and open manner. Speak our mind while still giving the other person the opportunity to explain their point of view.
Words and any actions have the power to hurt. Even small comments and gestures can be taken personally and could damage a friendship.
So, always be mindful of the language and any decision we take when it has relation with our friends. Choose our words…
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