If You Don’t Accept Casual, Your Dating Pool Will Shrink
Mylast article got a lot of attention. A lot of you joined the conversation about the modern dating scene in the comments. I saw some comments from men who were shocked to hear that some women aren’t happy single. There was someone who stated the only thing being offered to women at this point is casual, so women have no choice but to participate. I’d like to address these points. Here’s a follow up article.
Women are happier single when all their dating experiences have been negative. That’s the tea. Would these women prefer to be in a healthy loving relationship that is additive to their life? Of course. The reason why they are much happier single is because the interactions they’ve had with men were nothing short of traumatic. Women quit dating after having a situationship that destroyed their self-worth, a divorce that ruined true love for them, or a series of relationships that ended the same way.
At a certain point, you question if the relationship insanity is healthy for you, so you contemplate opting out altogether.
When I got out of my last exclusive relationship/situtationship/shitshow whatever you want to call it, I had a sigh of relief. My single life was much happier, full, and comfortable than any other dating interaction I’ve had in my life.
I’ve never experienced a man who provides emotional intimacy, safety, and collaboration.
I’m sure a relationship with that type of man would be more beneficial than me doing life alone.
Most women would agree, they just don’t want to experience all the bad interactions before they get to the good one — if they ever get to the good one.
So they simply stop dating.
Now, I want to address the sentiment about casual being the only dating option nowadays. If that’s the case, why are some people in relationships? Why are people still pairing off? Why are people still getting married? If everyone is commitment phobic, why are there still people making massive commitments?
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